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You're more or less aware of each other's relationship history.
Dating a friend might seem less glamorous than falling in love at first sight, but what's more suspenseful than decoding a friend's flirty mixed signals for signs of romantic intentions?
And thank Buddha for that, because, have I mentioned I this person?
) case of commitment-phobia on my part, rather than any real doubts about the situation at hand; maybe the supposed chemistry conundrum was just a cover for my fear of getting closer to him. (Trust me on that: About six months after we broke up, Jake said, "The sex really wasn't very good, was it? Plus, he's very tall and quite handsome--an indubitably attractive guy (whom the ladies generally love).At the same time, after considering it for a minute or two, I realized that if I give it a try, my reluctance could create a weird dynamic which could very well do serious damage to the friendship--maybe as much as a failed romance would. --because there doesn't seem to be much else to explain it.(If he's just broken up with someone after realizing how much he cares about you, that's a different story! If you suspect your friend might have a drinking problem, or you think you are struggling with an anxiety problem or other psychological disorder, I'd hold off temporarily on changing the boundaries of your relationship. Did you ever start dating your best friend as you were helping him through the worst--or most exciting--transition in his life? xxx--------------------------*Not his real name.--------------------------PS: Staci: I love your story! I'm glad it worked out--good for you, for being bold enough to lay it on the line! Faith, I'm sorry things didn't work out with your friend, but it sounds like you have a great outlook on it.Make sure whomever needs the help gets some treatment, and then let the dust settle for a month or two. And I think failed relationships really can teach us many valuable lessons that make it easier to make subsequent ones work. (Also, don't forget that even Harry and Sally broke up once before they finally got back together forever!